Six or seven places in my books I have made a remark which no one ever seems to remember, and that is that ends come of themselves. When you sit down you are in too much of a hurry to do so. You drive right for the end. Don’t think about the end! Don’t think about sitting down! What you do want to do, however, is to think of the means that are right for you to attain the end. The ends come of themselves. They cannot help but come of themselves.
F.M. Alexander as recounted by Goddard Binkley (“The Expanding Self” p65)